I’ve gotten a slow start to the New Year because my home is being renovated (thanks to a water leak related to Hurricane Helene). Over the holidays, I had to pack up two bedrooms, two bathrooms, and my office (with LOTS of bookshelves) in preparation for the carpet installers to work their magic. While it’s been incredibly discombobulating, I’m super grateful for insurance and a wonderful restoration team to work with. The symbolism of transformation—destruction, demolition, re-visioning, and renovation—at this time of year is not lost on me!
Whenever we go through a big change—whether it’s related to career, relationships, finances, living arrangements, health, spirituality or anything else—it’s always wise to slow down and move mindfully through each of the stages. I’m sorting through my possessions asking myself, “Do I really need this anymore?” and letting go of things that no longer serve an important purpose. This includes clothing, jewelry, old mementos, letters, work papers and, of course, books.
One thing I’m not ditching is old photos…check out this fun look back.
Me in 1985 vs. New Year’s Eve 2025
As I’ve been reloading my bookshelves (A friend told me I had a “book problem” last week—is that a real thing? I don’t think so! LOLOL). A few have jumped out at me as ones that I’d like to revisit this year. I thought I’d share them with you…
1. The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
One of my all-time favorite books, this is a timeless guide to personal freedom and authentic living. It distills ancient Toltec wisdom into four simple yet profound agreements. It’s a must-read for cultivating clarity, self-compassion, and healthier relationships—perfect for anyone navigating life’s transitions. Amazon Shop Now
My favorite agreement is “Don’t Take Things Personally.” What’s yours?
2. The Grief Recovery Handbook by John James and Russell Friedman
I thought I had read plenty of books on grief, but when a friend recommended this “little purple book” to me, I knew I’d found a gem. It’s a practical and compassionate guide with actionable steps for working through grief and loss. Its focus on recovery resonates deeply with my work, providing a framework for creating rituals that honor both endings and new beginnings. Amazon Shop Now
I use one exercise from this book in my Solid Ground Coaching Program that is a huge eye opener for clients and was for me, the first time I did it. Are you familiar with this work?
3. Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
I have underlined and dogeared so many things in this book! I recommend it often because it explores creativity as a partnership with the mysterious forces of inspiration and courage. It’s an energizing read for embracing creativity in life’s transitions, whether starting new projects or rewriting your personal story. Amazon Shop Now
One of my favorite quotes: “Stop treating your creativity like it’s a tired, old, unhappy marriage (a grind, a drag) and start regarding it with the fresh eyes of a passionate lover.”
4. The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
It’s a transformative exploration of consciousness and offers insights into letting go of limiting beliefs and embracing inner freedom. Its teachings provide grounding and expansion, especially valuable for navigating the emotional waves of grief and change. Amazon Shop Now
Confession: I’ve only read part of this book. I keep picking it up and getting distracted. But enough friends have raved about it, I know this is the year for me to read it all the way through.
5. The Primal Wound by Nancy Verrier
A classic in adoption literature, it’s a foundational text for understanding the impact of adoption. It delves into the deep emotional layers of separation and connection and coined the phrase “coming out of the fog” that many adoptees experience. If you know anyone impacted by adoption, I highly recommend it. Amazon Shop Now
I first read it back in 1999, when I was going through my own adoption reunion. But now as I write my book on building healthy long-term relationships in adoption reunions, I’ll be revisiting this vital work for exploring the complexities of healing and identity.
Feel free to leave a comment and tell me if you’ve read any of these books AND tell me which books YOU plan to read in 2025? I’m always looking for good recommendations!
And of course, if you’re ready to start working with a coach in 2025 to make your dreams come true, book a call and let’s get started!